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<\/a><\/p>\nPressures play a major role over Bride or Groom during marriage since the factors Age, personal expectations, Parental expectation\u2026 plays its part, But don\u2019t be in a hurry or do not be forced by circumstances to make the most important decision in your life.
\nYou have met your partner a couple of times and spoken so ask yourself that there is happiness in accepting the other person as your life partner. Are there shortcomings that may hurt your relationship later? Will both of you accept the other as they are, without having to make any changes.<\/p>\n
Do you have compatible values, interests and goals?<\/p>\n
If both of you have common values to share and cherish, a promising life lies ahead. Religious beliefs, child rearing, roles to play after marriage, views on family relationship, personal value systems, there needs to be broad acceptance on such things.<\/p>\n Find weather your families comfortable with the marriage?<\/p>\n Traditionally, Indian marriages are between two families, more than between two individuals. It\u2019s critical for you to work and gain acceptance from your family. Especially, if they\u2019re going to be staying with you after marriage.<\/p>\n Do you feel comfortable when you are with your Would-be? <\/p>\n Not everything can be understood in a few meetings. But Nature provides each one of us with an innate gut feeling which most often can be relied on. If you feel at ease in the company of your intended partner, then you\u2019re more likely to make a good pair.<\/p>\n Are you feeling good in the company of prospective in-laws?<\/p>\n The blessings of in-laws are important for success in a couple\u2019s life. How connected are you to them? Is there a sense of bonding and happiness when you meet them? Are you aware of their expectations from you?<\/p>\n Are you aware of the responsibilities, post marriage?<\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n